If you haven’t read the book I’m referring to in the title of this post, you should. And not because it’s hot, but because it makes you think about what you would be willing to do to be with the one you love – or the one you think you love. Men and women alike should read it and although there are many other reasons why people would agree with me, I think it’s a good way to broach the topic about what your limits are emotionally, sexually and otherwise. Are you just so desperate not to be single that you would be willing to subject yourself to something you would never otherwise dream of doing (it doesn’t have to be BDSM, it could be moving across the country or not having kids)? What are your limits in love?