Dear GemsfromJen,

I must be doing something wrong here. I need decent feedback. I would like to date a Jewish girl, but find myself anything but …

What am I doing wrong?

Dear I Must Be Doing Something Wrong,

You have given me very limited information, so I’m going to do my best with what you have provided. Your first move is to make sure your JDate profile is up to date.  Make sure your pictures are recent, your information is correct, and you are honest with what it is you are looking for in a potential match.
JDate is the place to find a nice Jewish girl, with that being said, do not give up. Instead of viewing your situation in a pessimistic light, try viewing it as an opportunity to start anew.  Spend some time re-working your profile.  Really consider what it is you want and do not settle for someone who is not a good fit.  If you only want to date Jewish girls then by all means only date Jewish girls.  I realize it can be more difficult than it sounds, but make that commitment to yourself. 
Be sure to reach out to all of the women that spark your interest on JDate. Spend some time writing personal emails. Read their profiles carefully and make a personal connection in your correspondence. We all have daily routines, make JDate one part of your routine.  Your dating life is just as important as work, family and friends. We all tend to make time for these aspects and sometimes we put our love lives on the back burner.  Don’t put it off any longer.  Set a time daily that you use to access the site and make connections. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.

Gems from Jen