In my last blog post I discussed the importance of using humor to build attraction when meeting women online.   This is something that I write a tremendous amount about in my online dating guide and should not be underestimated.  Last time we talked about all of the reasons it is important and today we will discuss exactly how to use humor to your advantage.

Allow me to start out by saying this: All humor is good humor as long as it is not completely juvenile and makes the girl laugh.  You can’t go wrong with making someone laugh.  However, the best humor to build attraction with is humor that is both slightly cocky and funny at the same time.  In addition, we want to be playful and flirtatious.

An example of how to act cocky and funny might be:

“You better ask me for my phone number soon; don’t you know there are fifteen women on the waiting list right now on JDate for me? =P”

Notice how this statement incorporates humor, but is also playful, slightly flirtatious, implies that we are in demand and encourages good conversation back.  You may notice that a few other attraction builders that I previously talked about have been simultaneously hit on.

Whatever you write about, keep it playful and show lots of confidence.  If you need help with humor, hang around funny people, watch comedians and practice.  Exposing yourself constantly to humor will make you funnier.  I am out of time for this blog.  In my next blog we will move on to our next attraction builder: self-confidence.