What’s your flirting technique? Do you throw yourself all over your date? Do you sit on his lap? Do you run your hands up her thighs? Do you make sexual innuendos? And do you end up getting taken seriously in your quest for a relationship or do your prospects assume you are just a good time? Your behavior and body language speaks volumes about you. If you want respect then show self-respect. Once you’re in a relationship you’ll have plenty of time to explore the chemistry and have fun flirting. There’s a time and a place for everything, the first date isn’t the place for coming on too strong. Let your interest be known in other ways.