Your online profile is powerful; it’s what makes someone decide whether to contact you or not. If your profile isn’t enticing, newsflash, neither are you. Stressed by this? You shouldn’t be. Here are five tips to make your profile stand out, and attract the woman of your dreams.

  1. Show Your Passions

Be super specific. Detailing your passions makes it clear to others what you’re all about. Are you interested in things that are really, really weird? Or, are your hobbies generic? Fortunately, the internet is full of women with many varied interests. It’s very likely that there is someone out there who gets just as excited about your favorite activities as you do!

  1. Make Sure Your Photos Are Amazing

Your photos are important. They should be recent and authentic. The more photos you have, the merrier. You want someone to have a sense of who you are, so choose photos of yourself that show your personality and your interests. If you like hiking, post a hiking picture. If you’re a great cook, add an action shot of you preparing dinner. If you have a dog, share a picture of you and your furry friend. Make your photos unique to you!

  1. Choose a Conversation Starter

It’s your job to make your profile so enticing that all women want to talk to you.  You should incorporate something catchy and attention grabbing so that women are encouraged to start a conversation with you and answer your messages.

  1. Embrace Who You Are  

Some men try to hide their flaws on their profiles, which is pointless because if you hide the real you, the right woman won’t be able to fall for you. Be honest in your profile. If you’re 5’8, don’t pretend to be 5’11. If you’re really 65, put down your real age. Accept who you are and be confident about it.

  1. Be Awesome

Your online dating profile is a way for you to sell yourself, so it’s time to politely brag. Advertise what makes you awesome and tell everyone about it! Think about who you are, your accomplishments, and what makes you happy.

The right woman will like you for you – so be proud of the person you are today.

Carly Spindel is the Vice President of Janis Spindel Serious Matchmaking Inc. She has seen the matchmaking business firsthand since she was 6 years old. As the daughter of Janis Spindel, Carly has been called mini Janis since she could walk and has learned the inside tricks of the trade from Janis! Carly has been matching her own clients for the past 6 years, and runs Janis’ Express Matchmaking and Junior Matchmaking divisions. You can learn more about Carly and Janis Spindel Serious Matchmaking Inc. at
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