In the last blog I discussed the concept of using a context opener with your potential date. A context opener is when you open up a conversation relating to something that has to do with what is currently occurring in every day life or pop culture at the moment.
Today I am going to discuss a different type of opener – “Humor Openers.” A humor opener is just how it sounds. Opening up the conversation in a way that invokes a laugh and a potentially humorous conversation.
Why do we want to sometimes open the conversation in this manner? Most women simply become bored after they have been online dating and, after a while, being opened up with the same questions over and over again. This translates to one word: BORING.
Women want to laugh, be entertained and know that they will have fun if they eventually go on a first date.
Using a humor opener will raise eyebrows, instantly peak interest and have women give you that opportunity you are looking for. Once the opportunity is given, it is up to you to keep the conversation going, which is why you should always be prepared with a transition. In my next blog I will teach you the art of transitioning the conversation.