A recent date told me he was a little bummed that I didn’t respond to his offer, not of marriage but a date. I would have responded had I gotten it… Who knows whose phone cracked under the pressure but, should it matter? I get we live in an instant, available all the time, communication world…when was the last time you sent your romantic interest an old fashioned card to open?? Not only is texting effortless but also kind-of unromantic. It puts another layer between 2 people– but I guess it is also efficient, protects egos involved, and makes it easier to decline invitations as well. It is no longer personal. I guess my thought is take a chance– put in the effort, call your interest and you’ll know first-hand the situation and you won’t have to rely on technology to “maybe” deliver the message, or have the crackberry crack under pressure.