Today I was listening to the radio and an interesting question was proposed. Does the statement, “once a cheater, always a cheater” always hold true, or can someone truly change if they find the right person?
Ask 10,000 people this question and you will probably be able to divide a line right down the middle with some heated fighting in between.
There are many men who claim to have been cheaters in the past, but become reformed once they finally are ready to settle down.
But this begs the question: How does anyone truly know that these “reformed” cheaters stopped cheating?
Many women will say, my boyfriend was a cheater, but he stopped with me. Is a cheater actually going to come out and admit he is cheating? No way!
But then again, perhaps there is a difference between a serial cheater and somebody who has cheated once or twice. This could all depend on the context and given situation for each individual cheater.
Regardless, this leaves the question: Would you want to ask your online date if he or she ever cheated in the past? The answer just mayforever open Pandora’s Box and leave you with a cloud of doubt that you aren’t prepared to handle!