You are driving home with an uncomfortable feeling in your stomach.  You are mentally visualizing the date you just had, trying to undo all of the mistakes that can never be undone.  “I should have held the door for her.  I also should have listened to her when she was talking about her sick grandmother instead of just nodding in agreement.  I shouldn’t have suggested she pay for dinner.”  You just had a bad date and it feels terrible.  Don’t worry, your bad date is nothing compared to the conditions that people have to deal with every day in North Korea.