Have fun and enjoy the moment.

That’s it.

Let me explain.

Dating can be a drag. It takes time and energy to really put yourself out there. I get a lot of complaints from men and women that they don’t have time to date and that it can be so much work.

The best thing you can do is take the work out of it.

Stop thinking of it as work. Instead remember that dating is an experience to meet new people and enjoy the fleeting moments of life. Each and every time you meet someone new you have an opportunity to learn something about the world or yourself.

And don’t put too much pressure on yourself to find “the one”.  This takes a lot of the fun out of dating because, again, you’re not living in the moment. Instead you’re projecting yourself into the future and not enjoying what’s in front of you.

Practice meditation.

Do yoga.

These are exercises that help you enjoy every second that goes by. Dating won’t be so much of a strain on you when you take things day by day.

With online dating, we tend to get overwhelmed with all the choices, messages, dates, etc. And then we have work, friends, family, dentist appointments…

When does all the chaos end?

It doesn’t.

There’s so much to do in so little time.

And we’re lucky that we have so many options, but it’s not worth the mental stress. When you can control your thoughts and your stress you become a very well rounded person. Well rounded people have more success with dating. Why?

Because people want to be around others who radiate positive energy. It’s attractive.

So, the next time you go on a date try and remember not to step back, but step into it. Taste your dinner and enjoy the conversation.

Focus on what’s good and beautiful and the rest falls into place.

The second you take things too seriously is when the stress enters.

So, again, the best dating tip I can give you is…

Have fun.